WOW! I just read all of these messages on this subject and it breaks my heart. I have it so much better then most and this new message board is showing me how good I have it. We're not dealing with drugs, abuse, lawyers, or courts like most of you are, (YET!) we're just dealing just a very lazy and irresponsible 23 yr. old daughter and a helpless 2 yr. old grandson. I know it could turn nasty at any time. We just pray that we can handle it and that little Matthew doesn't get hurt.