Here's a thought. Perhaps some of our older posters on this board should get together and start using this "Melrose Seniors" wasted space as there own.
I'm sure none of the former owners could care less... after abandoning it and all.
Are you saying Old Fellow that we've given up on this site? No not to my knowledge. It's just the end of the summer and a lot is happening to pay attention to on the dark side.
The only problem that I have with some dog owners is that there are a few that bag the dog waste and then leave it for someone else to dispose of. The city DPW doesn't have a worker going around looking for little baggies to pick up, although if it paid well I would consider doing it.
I admit that that is ridiculous. It's no harder to takeitwitcha than to pick it up/bag it originally! I just pick those up, add it to mine, and dispose of it when I get home.
If there were "little bag' deposit stations, participation would increase 10 fold. Some places have them some don't and who wants to walk around with poop in the pockets?
My kitty died 3 weeks ago. She was 19 years old and I'm still trying to get over her death. She was an outdoor cat and a real tough cookie. She was getting sick and wouldn't come in to eat or use the cat box. And one day she didn't come home.
I guess that's what outdoor cats do. She always came home. I searched everywhere in all her favorite haunts and asked all my neighbors. I hope she just laid down somewhere safe and went to sleep....
Patty; that is exactly what our first cat did. She was an out door cat about 14 years old. I have heard that when they know the end is near they will go off someplace and that is it. Of course for years after our family would swear that they saw her.
That's so strange! I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and swear she is cuddled up next to me. I even hear her running up the stairs when I'm home alone. Thank you for mentioning that RATT. I honestly believe our beloved pets have a soul. Maybe it's their way of making us feel better.
Patty, I am so sorry to learn that.
I know that "non pet people" often think we're foolish (and that's their right, of course) but I try not to even think about that day coming. "Our plan" is to go on the same day!
It hurts so bad you don't want to go through it ever again.
But, sometimes you just should.
So true. When my cat disappeared I didn't even know when to stop hoping that she would be back. I seriously never wanted another one. Then one day, my father came over to visit and he had the tiniest little black and white fluffball in his pocket. He knew I didn't want another cat, but there it was. Once I got over being annoyed at him (approximately 2 minutes), I fell hopelessly in love with that adorable kitten. It didn't take all the pain away, but took my focus off of it. You can't help but smile at the sight of an energetic joy-filled little kitten.
I'm a firm believer in planning ahead and I have said this in the past on this board. It is often less painful when you recognize the signs of an aging pet and go out and bring home a little friend, while your pet is still active, but aging.
This accomplishes several things. The little fellow is bound to become the older pet's best friend. The friendship of the two will lengthen the life span of your older pet. And, most importantly, when the sad event actually happens, you and the younger pet will go through the morning process together. The focus will not be on a single event. Both you and the surviving pet will need each other and that will soften the pain we all feel.
Apparently 'volume' of words is supposed to translate to implied expertise!
Not to change the subject (fascinates me when people, including me, say that, because of course that is exactly what they are going to do), but how is it possible to "Take one pill, twice daily"? Once you've taken it, how can you take it again a second time?????
The main reason that I have been silent is because of the decoder at the bottom. I type in what is displayed and then get denied. If this msg gets through then hopefully I will be back. [:-|]
I have used all kinds of comsec gear in the military, but that dam thing is driving me crazy. You can go days without a problem, then I have a string of tries where I go nowhere.
Okay my friends! It's gone! RATT you can post to your heart's content.
I also want to thank all of you for your support and empathy at the passing of my old kitty. I think I'm going to get a shelter kitty this weekend. My daughter has been taking care a stray in Pittsburgh and she wants me to come and get him. The college kids who rented the apartment before her just moved and left him there. How can people do that???????
We had a Russian Blue once, and she was my daughters' cat, pure and simple. She didn't like me at all, so we kind of just stayed away from each other. When the end time came from an awful tumor in her throat, inexplicably it was me she came to. I swear she was asking me to do something to ease her suffering, and came to me because she knew my daughters would balk at the prospect. I took her to the vet who just said "It's time." She just looked up at me and to this day I'm convinced I heard "Thank you." I barely made it out into the parking lot before the waterworks started.
Some weeks later, they came home from Wakefield PAWS with, believe it or not, a little Russian Blue kitten, who's still around at 11, and still healthy. I'm not her favorite either, but every once in a while, when I'm on Grampy duty and no one else is around, she'll come over and sit next to me, and give me that same look I got from the other one at the vet. It's absolutely spooky. They know.
I try to stay away from the dark side. They can be very vicious on those sites. It is a lot safer here, as on this site we are not trying to solve world problems just our own. Which at times can be earth shattering to us. [:)]