If you won't allow me to have interactions with them why would I logically give You money (I'd give money to them directly, too bad I cant).

Either I see and care for them whilst also feeding and educating them or you do the same, but if I don't get involved then you do it on your own.

That's like paying for a movie that you can't see, or a video game that you can't play.

You don't want me to get involved? Then **** off and pay the consequences of your mistakes.