Gotta agree with you Lefty. When I enlisted in 1958 desertion was fully frowned upon. But that was then. PC has crept in and drastically changed most everything about the way we live our lives.These days anything is alibied as being normal under the most stressful conditions. No longer are we a product of our families but of our surroundings.
The old saying,"if it feels good, do it" comes to mind. And so it goes, on and on. There's not much we can do about it but it isn't right. Just like so much that goes on today.